Wage Gap:
- http://www.forbes.com/sites/realspin/2012/04/16/its-time-that-we-end-the-equal-pay-myth/
- http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052748704415104576250672504707048.html
- http://money.howstuffworks.com/gender-gap1.htm
- http://www.bloomberg.com/news/2012-08-13/don-t-blame-discrimination-for-gender-wage-gap.html
- http://blogs.telegraph.co.uk/news/davidgreen/9666597/The_gender_pay_gap_does_not_exist/
- http://www.consad.com/content/reports/Gender%20Wage%20Gap%20Final%20Report.pdf
- http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-505125_162-28246928/the-gender-pay-gap-is-a-complete-myth/
- http://www.marketwatch.com/story/the-gender-wage-gap-is-a-myth-2012-07-26
- http://www.businessinsider.com/actually-the-gender-pay-gap-is-just-a-myth-2011-3?op=1
- http://oratorasaurus.tumblr.com/post/41131660349/the-so-called-pay-gap
- http://tgjesusfreak.tumblr.com/post/59991585178
- http://wwww.examiner.com/x-22884-Canada-Politics-Examiner~y2010m2d22-Gender-pay-gap-is-not-what-activists-claim
- http://www.telegraph.co.uk/comment/columnists/vickiwoods/7957186/Sorry-ladies-Im-not-worried-about-wage-gaps.html
- http://www.nytimes.com/2010/09/22/opinion/22Sommers.html?_r=1&hp
- http://www.americanthinker.com/2010/09/the_wage_gap_myth.html
- http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qa3pKN3XUKM&feature=youtu.be
- http://www.nytimes.com/2010/02/06/business/economy/06women.html?_r=2
- http://www.zerohedge.com/news/biggest-shock-fridays-payroll-report-sorry-men
- http://economix.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/09/07/share-of-men-in-labor-force-at-all-time-low/?src=recg
- http://www.businessinsider.com/women-in-tech-make-more-money-and-land-better-jobs-than-men-20
- http://www.reuters.com/article/domesticNews/idUSN0752118220071107?feedType=R
- http://abcnews.go.com/print?id=10630664
- http://www.nytimes.com/2007/08/03/nyregion/03women.html?_r=1&oref=slogin
- http://www.ksee24.com/news/local/Young-Women-Earn-More-159818705.html
- http://www.time.com/time/business/article/0,8599,2015274,00.html
- http://www.forbes.com/sites/jennagoudreau/2011/03/14/jobs-where-women-earn-more-than-men/
- http://www.womenintechnology.co.uk/news/young-women-earn-more-than-men%E2%80%94news-800761492
- http://www.womensviewsonnews.org/2011/10/young-women-now-earn-more-than-men-in-uk/
- http://www.reuters.com/article/domesticNews/idUSN0752118220071107?feedTy%E2%80%A6
- http://edition.cnn.com/2005/BUSINESS/03/15/optout.revolution/
- http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/23413243
- http://www.cnn.com/2007/US/Careers/06/13/dads.work/index.html
- http://www.usatoday.com/news/health/2009-05-04-equal-parenting_N.htm
- http://www.sify.com/news/women-stay-away-from-math-out-of-their-own-free-choice-news-scitech-kk1lubiiiee.html
- http://www.science20.com/news_articles/women_science_no_discrimination_says_cornell_study-75984
- http://social.dol.gov/blog/myth-busting-the-pay-gap/
- http://www.payscale.com/career-news/2009/12/do-men-or-women-choose-majors-to-maximize-income
I have thirty seven, some from forbes and the huffington post. These are those REAL facts you asked for.
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What about the fact that men have it worse in nearly everything?
Men suffer more casualties in war
- Men are 99.999% of American combat deaths and casualties
- Men are at least 97% of the deaths since the first Gulf War
- “The numbers of wounded women and female amputees, meanwhile, are
considerably less than their male counterparts–at least 378 wounded
versus 17,490; 11 amputees versus over 400–but they are historic for
modern day warfare.”
- A Pentagon study published in March on the mental health of soldiers
returning from deployment to Iraq and Afghanistan found that more than
one- third of U.S. soldiers received psychological counseling. A
statistic buried in the study: 23.6 percent of women reported a mental
health concern compared with 18.6 percent of men.
currently, women are not even required by law to register for
selective service, but even mentally challenged and physically disabled
men are, in addition to all the healthy ones)
In contrast, women get every veteran’s benefit a man does, yet
comprise less than 3% of combat deaths or casualties and a woman makes
the cover of Time magazine (person of the year/2003 standing in front of
two men.
Men have it rough in the workplace
- Men are 93% of industrial deaths and accident (NIOSH)
- Even though murder is the leading workplace cause of death for
women, a statistic often used by gender feminists, that number is only a
percentage of the 6% of workplace deaths that women comprise. In other
words, a fraction of a small fraction.
- One example:
Between 1890 and 1917, two hundred thirty
thousand (230,000) [male] railroad workers were killed. One of the most
dangerous jobs was “brakeman.” Each car had to be stopped manually and
it was the brakeman’s job to stop four or five cars. The brakeman
walked on top of the RR cars and turned a wheel, putting the brakes “on”
for each car. It was not unheard of for a brakeman to be thrown from
the top of a RR car.
Source: Freight Trains, Modern Marvels, The History Channel, 2006
Men die more often from unnatural causes than women
- Men are:
76% of homicide victims – DOJ
80% of Suicide victims – CDC
- Also:
Suicide ranks 11th among causes of death in the US,
with 30,622 completed suicides in 2001. It is the 3rd leading cause of
death among people 15 to 24 yr. Men ≥ 75 yr have the highest rate of
death by suicide. Among all age groups, male deaths by suicide outnumber
female deaths by 4:1.”
- “The other most common suicide victims are divorced and/or estranged
fathers like Derrick Miller. In fact, a divorced father is ten times
more likely to commit suicide than a divorced mother, and three times
more likely to commit suicide than a married father.
~Suicide took the lives of 30,622 people in 2001 (CDC 2004).
~Suicide is the eighth leading cause of death for all U.S. men (Anderson and Smith 2003).
~24,672 suicide deaths reported among men in 2001
~24,672 / 30,622 = .8056952
~In other words, over 80% of all suicide deaths were male.
- Of the top fifteen leading causes of death, men lead in 12
categories, are tied in two and trail in one. Even though more women
die of heart disease each year, men die of heart disease many years
earlier.
Men are the overwhelming majority of rape victims
- Male rape has been called “The most closely guarded secret of American prisons.” (Weiss and Friar 1974)
There are estimated to be over 300,000 male rapes per year in American prisons and jails.
- Meanwhile A United Nations statistical report compiled from
government sources showed that more than 250,000 cases of male-female
rape or attempted rape were recorded by police annually. The reported
data covered 65 countries.
- According to the 2009 United States National Crime Victimization
Survey estimates, only 55% of rapes and sexual assaults were reported to
law enforcement officials. When a male is raped, less than 10% are
believed to be reported. Female-male and female-female rape are ignored
altogether in this survey.
Other facts regarding men and rape:
- 2.1% of men reported forced vaginal sex compared to 1.6% of
women in a relationship in the previous year. From: Predictors of Sexual
Coersion.
- 94% of sexually abused youth in correctional facilities reported
being abused by female staff. From: Sexual Victimization in Juvenile
Facilities, 2008-09.
- Among inmates reporting staff sexual misconduct, ~ 65% reported a
female aggressor. From: Sexual Victimization in Prisons and Jails
Reported by Inmates, 2008-09.
- 50% of homeless youth reported being sexually abused by a female.
From: It’s Not What You Think: Sexually Exploited Youth in British
Columbia
Men get screwed over in divorce and custody courts
- A woman is the party filing for divorce in about 66% of divorce cases.
“How often was it that many more of women wanted the divorce more than the men?
2/3.
The same as the amount responsible for divorce filings. And yet another
study of divorced couples found that the majority of divorced wives and
husbands both agreed it was the wife who wanted out.”
- Women receive custody in about 84% of child custody cases.
In
the spring of 2002, an estimated 13.4 million parents had custody of
21.5 million children under 21 years of age whose other parent lived
somewhere else. About 5 of every 6 custodial parents were mothers (84.4
percent) and 1in 6 were fathers (15.6 percent), proportions
statistically unchanged since 1994
According to Los Angeles divorce consultant Jayne Major:
“Divorced
men are often devastated by the loss of their children. It’s a little
known fact that in the United States men initiate only a small number of
the divorces involving children. Most of the men I deal with never saw
their divorces coming, and they are often treated very unfairly by the
family courts.’”
- Paternity fraud is rampant in the U.S.
30% of those named as fathers who test for paternity find they are not the biological father.
- Not only is all this imbalance around marriage and children unfair
to men, we must also consider that the damaged inflicted on fatherless
children is staggering:
63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes (US Dept. Of Health/Census) – 5 times the average.
90% of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes – 32 times the average.
85% of all children who show behavior disorders come from fatherless
homes – 20 times the average. (Center for Disease Control)
80% of rapists with anger problems come from fatherless homes –14 times
the average. (Justice & Behavior, Vol 14, p. 403-26)
71% of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (National Principals Association Report)
75% of all adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers come from
fatherless homes – 10 times the average. (Rainbows for All God’s
Children)
70% of youths in state-operated institutions come
from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (U.S. Dept. of Justice,
Sept. 1988)
85% of all youths in prison come from fatherless
homes – 20 times the average. (Fulton Co. Georgia, Texas Dept. of
Correction)
Men are often screwed over in the Justice System as well.
- There is blatant anti-male discrimination in the criminal
justice system and the sentencing disparity between men and women
exceeds that between whites and any other minority.
- Avg sentences for crime by gender:
Female – 18.51 months
Male – 51.52 months
- “Judge bashes Probation Department for gender bias in favor of leniency for girls”
- The 2006 United States’ rate of incarceration of 751 inmates per
100,000 population is the highest reported rate in the world, well ahead
of the Russian rate of 628 per 100,000.
93% of the prison
population is male with over 60% having no High School education.
America has now passed Russia as the country that has the largest
percentage of its population incarcerated, yet we still claim to be the
freest country on earth.
The number of persons on probation and
parole has been growing dramatically along with institutional
populations. There are now 7.2 million Americans incarcerated or on
probation or parole, an increase of more than 290 percent since 1980.
- The problem of sentencing disparities is compounded by an epidemic of false accusations:
205 (and growing) wrongly convicted people have been exonerated by DNA evidence since the beginning of the Innocence Project.
204 of the wrongly convicted were men.
Most of them were falsely imprisoned for rape.
- As we saw in the Duke Lacrosse rape case fiasco, false accusers are
rarely prosecuted and when they are it is only as a misdemeanor (at
most), while rape itself is vigorously prosecuted as a felony. The Duke
false accuser, Crystal Gayle Mangum went on to commit assault, arson and
finally murder before authorities made a good faith intervention.
One
attorney speaking at premiere for the movie, After Innocence, estimates
that there are between 20,000 and 100,000 wrongly convicted still in
prison.
Valid research puts the estimated false rape reporting rate at 41%
Capital Punishments Target Men Almost Exclusively
- Since the death penalty was reinstated in 1976, there have been
over 1,200 executions in the United States. Eleven of them, or less than
1%, were women. This stands in stark contrast considering women commit,
by DOJ estimates, 10% of all murders, are involved in 35% of all
domestic homicides (are involved often means they get other people to
kill for them) and nearly 30% of murders where the victim was another
family member.
Other:
- We hear a lot about the historical oppression of women’s voting
rights, but few if any women who were born in the 20th century were
every without the right to vote in their lifetime, upon reaching legal
voting age. On the other hand, around 2400 hundred California men (42%
of CA men killed in Vietnam) gave their life for their country without
being allowed by their country to vote. The exact number is 2,381.
Four of the twelve Iwo Jimo flag raisers died for their country without
their country ever allowing them the right to vote.
- “The youngest Vietnam KIA is believed to be Dan Bullock USMC, at 15 years old.
At least 5 men killed in Vietnam were 16 years old.
At least 12 men killed in Vietnam were 17 years old.
There are 120 persons who listed foreign countries as their home of record.
At least 25,000 of those killed were 20 years old or younger.
The oldest man killed was 62 years old.”
If
you do a full count on all the men in the 20th century who died for
their country without being allowed to vote the numbers will be
staggering.
In America there are over 270 women’s commissions, but only one for men in New Hampshire.
There
are over 700 Women’s Studies programs on colleges and universities
throughout the United States teaching thousands or tens of thousands of
classes from the gender feminist perspective, but not one program or
class, teaching men’s studies from the masculist perspective.
Men
are fully half of the victims of domestic violence (26% of intimate
partner homicides), yet are denied service at most tax payer funded
domestic violence shelters.
The CDC reports that in cases of
non-reciprocal intimate partner violence (one directional) that women
are more than twice as likely to be the aggressor. The report cites that
women comprise 70% of perpetrators, men 29%.
In the largest
collection of studies on intimate partner violence known, Martin Fiebert
of the California State University, Longbeach offers the following:
SUMMARY:
This bibliography examines 286 scholarly investigations: 221 empirical
studies and 65 reviews and/or analyses, which demonstrate that women are
as physically aggressive, or more aggressive, than men in their
relationships with their spouses or male partners. The aggregate sample
size in the reviewed studies exceeds 371,600.
- In another study the CDC lists male victims of domestic violence at
more than 34%, but men injured in Iraq (and all other men) are by law in
California excluded from domestic violence shelter services. Only one
shelter in Lancaster, CA accepts men and it has been extensively
harassed for doing so.
That harassment is a systemic problem with
origins that emanate from academe. Dr. Murray Straus, an
internationally recognized expert on intimate partner violence published
the following paper outlining the various ways that feminist ideologues
suppress data and research on IPV that demonstrates gender symmetry in
its incidence.
- Men are subject to extreme discrimination in healthcare.
Men
today die on average 6 years sooner than women. In 1920 the variance
was one year. The death rates for prostate and breast cancer are
similar, but because men die of other things more frequently-accidents
,war, heart disease etc., there are fewer men left to die of prostate
cancer. This is akin to saying people from a nation like Zimbabwe are
immune to Alzheimer’s- but in fact they die of other things before they
can get old enough to contract Alzheimer’s.
To date, there are
numerous federal offices on women’s health, and not a single one for
men. Also, the lion’s share of gender specific medical research is done
on behalf of women.
Men and boys are suffering decline in the educational system. Department of Education graph: 
Boys
are facing a significantly harder time in early education than girls.
Yet girls, from primary education through college still benefit from
many more special programs designed to help them gain “equality” with
males.
Some info on the wage gap
- The wage gap myth based on the “comparable worth” paradigm:
- The wage gap myth based on the “comparable worth” paradigm:
- While men make more money than women on average, women control and spend vastly more money than men.
- Women as an economically disadvantaged group is a myth that negatively affects men.
Not
too long ago, legendary adman David Ogilvy chided his peers for talking
down to women. He berated those who ignored women or discounted them,
misconstruing men’s higher paychecks to mean greater spending clout. And
he was right. According to the Bureau of Economic Analysis, women–who
comprise just over 51 percent of the U.S. population, making them the
largest consumer segment in the country–control six trillion dollars in
buying power annually. Statistics show that:
Women make 88
percent of all U.S. retail purchases. Some experts even predict that, by
2020, women will control most of the money in America.
Women control 88 percent of all purchases.
Women handle 75 percent of family finances. 43 percent of those with assets over $500,000 are women.
Women influence two out of every three of the 3 trillion dollars spent in the U.S. each year!
From the Sisters4Sisters Yellow Pages:
Women are starting businesses at twice the rate of men.
One out of every 11 American women owns her own business.
Currently there are over 10.6 million women-owned businesses employing
19.1 million people and generating $2.5 trillion in sales.
Women make or influence over 85% of all purchasing decisions.
In 2010, women have the majority of wealth in America.
Men
pay the majority of social security taxes and are outlived by six years
by women, but the government makes no fair adjustment to how those
funds are distributed.
In summary, men experience systematic
discrimination in parenting, domestic violence policies, education,
criminal sentencing, paternity, forced labor, military conscription,
public health policies, genital integrity, false accusations,
reproductive rights, portrayal by the media and in the coverage of their
issues by the news media.
Misandry is often expressed through racism.
From Scottsboro An American Tragedy.
“The
protection of white womanhood, it might be the pivot around all
Southern culture. Of the 5,000 people who were lynched from 1880 to
1940, most were black men accused of raping or sexually assaulting white
women.” – Robin Kelly, Historian
From American Man
“In
1931, two white women stepped from a boxcar in Paint Rock, Alabama to
make a shocking accusation: they had been raped by nine black teenagers
on the train.” … ”- a poor white woman whose lie lends her
respectability…”
PBS Home Video
Scottsboro An American Tragedy
The case that sparked the civil rights movement
As
we have seen with the “war on drugs,” legislation like VAWA, primary
aggressor laws, mandatory arrest laws and the like have a
disproportionately negative effect on minorities and other low income
populations.
- Or the differences in healthcare for men and women in Obamacare program
- Young men will be the biggest losers in the transition to Obamacare. Reports estimate that males as a whole will see:
11% increase in insurance premiums compared to 9% drop in females
Men under 40 will face 18% - 31% insurance hikes compared to females under 40 13% to 19% decrease
Young men ages 25-36 will could face insurance premiums of 50% or more
compared to young females 25-29 who will see 4% increase
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What about some quotes by famous and powerful feminists?
"Life in this society being, at best, an utter bore and no aspect of
society being at all relevant to women, there remains to civic-minded,
responsible, thrill-seeking females only to overthrow the government,
eliminate the money system, institute complete automation, and destroy
the male sex."
~Valerie Solanas, the SCUM Manifesto
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"The simple fact is that every woman must be willing to be identified as a lesbian to be fully feminist."
~National NOW Times, Jan.1988
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"Men who are unjustly accused of rape can sometimes gain from the experience."
~Catherine Comins, Vassar College,
Assistant Dean of Student Life in Time, June 3, 1991, p. 52
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"The most merciful thing a large family can do to one of its infant members is to kill it"
~Margaret Sanger, founder of Planned Parenthood, in Women and the New Rage, p.67
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“I feel that ‘man-hating’ is an honourable and viable political act,
that the oppressed have a right to class-hatred against the class that
is oppressing them.”
~Robin Morgan, Ms. Magazine Editor
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“To call a man an animal is to flatter him; he’s a machine, a walking dildo.”
~Valerie Solanas
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“I want to see a man beaten to a bloody pulp with a high-heel shoved in his mouth, like an apple in the mouth of a pig.”
~Andrea Dworkin
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“Rape is nothing more or less than a conscious process of intimidation by which all men keep all women in a state of fear”
~Susan Brownmiller
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“The more famous and powerful I get the more power I have to hurt men.”
~Sharon Stone
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“In a patriarchal society, all heterosexual intercourse is rape
because women, as a group, are not strong enough to give meaningful
consent.”
~Catherine MacKinnon
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“The proportion of men must be reduced to and maintained at approximately 10% of the human race.”
~Sally Miller Gearhart
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“All men are rapists and that’s all they are”
~Marilyn French
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“Probably the only place where a man can feel really secure is in a
maximum security prison, except for the imminent threat of release.”
~Germaine Greer
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"Sex is the cross on which women are crucified … Sex can only be adequately defined as universal rape."
~Hodee Edwards
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"Women have always been the primary victims of war. Women lose their husbands, their fathers, their sons in combat."
~Hillary Clinton
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“
MAN: … an obsolete life form… an ordinary creature who needs to be watched … a contradictory baby-man …”
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”
TESTOSTERONE POISONING:
… ‘Until now it has been though that the level of testosterone in men
is normal simply because they have it. But if you consider how abnormal
their behavior is, then you are led to the hypothesis that almost all
men are suffering from ‘testosterone poisoning.’”
~A Feminist Dictionary
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"Patriarchy requires violence or the subliminal threat of violence in
order to maintain itself… The most dangerous situation for a woman is
not an unknown man in the street, or even the enemy in wartime, but a
husband or lover in the isolation of their home."
~Gloria Steinem in Revolution from Within: A Book of Self-Esteem, pp. 259-261.
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"Women take their roles of caretakers very seriously and when they
hear of someone who’s taken advantage of a child, they react more
strongly than men do."
~Kathleen C. Faller
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"I believe that women have a capacity for understanding and
compassion which a man structurally does not have, does not have it
because he cannot have it. He’s just incapable of it."
~Former Congresswoman Barbara Jordan
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"I wonder if he [Martin Luther King] really accomplished things, or if he just stirred people up and caused a lot of riots."
~Melbourne City Councilwoman Pat Poole on her opposition to renaming a street for Martin Luther King
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"Under patriarchy, no woman is safe to live her life, or to love, or
to mother children. Under patriarchy, every woman is a victim, past,
present, and future. Under patriarchy, every woman’s daughter is a
victim, past, present, and future. Under patriarchy, every woman’s son
is her potential betrayer and also the inevitable rapist or exploiter of
another woman,"
~Andrea Dworkin, Liberty, p.58
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"Compare victims’ reports of rape with women’s reports of sex. They
look a lot alike….[T]he major distinction between intercourse (normal)
and rape (abnormal) is that the normal happens so often that one cannot
get anyone to see anything wrong with it."
~Catherine MacKinnon, quoted in Christina Hoff Sommers, “Hard-Line
Feminists Guilty of Ms.-Representation,” Wall Street Journal, November
7, 1991.
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"The fact is that the process of killing - both rape and battery are
steps in that process- is the prime sexual act for men in reality and/or
in imagination.".
~Andrea Dworkin, Letters from a War Zone, p. 22..
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"Man’s discovery that his genitalia could serve as a weapon to
generate fear must rank as one of the most important discoveries of
prehistoric times, along with the use of fire, and the first crude stone
axe."
~Susan Brownmiller, Against Our Will: Men, Women, and Rape, p. 5..
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"The newest variations on this distressingly ancient theme center on
hormones and DNA: men are biologically aggressive; their fetal brains
were awash in androgen; their DNA, in order to perpetuate itself, hurls
them into murder and rape."
~Andrea Dworkin, Letters from a War Zone, p. 114..
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When asked: “
You [Greer] were once quoted as saying your idea of the ideal man is a woman with a dick. Are you still that way inclined?"
Dr Greer (
denying that she said it):
“I have a great deal of difficulty with the idea of the ideal man. As
far as I’m concerned, men are the product of a damanged gene. They
pretend to be normal but what they’re doing sitting there with benign
smiles on their faces is they’re manufacturing sperm. They do it all the
time. They never stop. I mean, we women are more reasonable. We pop one
follicle every 28 days, whereas they are producing 400 million sperm
for each ejaculation, most of which don’t take place anywhere near an
ovum. I don’t know that the ecosphere can tolerate it.”
~Germaine Greer, at a Hilton Hotel literary lunch, promoting her book
#34; The Change— Women, Aging and the Menopause#34; . From a newsreport
dated 14/11/91
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"One can know everything and still be unable to accept the fact that
sex and murder are fused in the male consciousness, so that the one
without the imminent possibly of the other is unthinkable and
impossible."
~Andrea Dworkin, Letters from a War Zone, p. 21..
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"Sex as desired by the class that dominates women is held by that
class to be elemental, urgent, necessary, even if or even though it
appears to require the repudiation of any claim women might have to full
human standing. In the subordination of women, inequality itself is
sexualized, made into the experience of sexual pleasure, essential to
sexual desire."
~Andrea Dworkin, Letters from a War Zone, p. 265..
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"AIDS education will not get very far until young men are taught how
not to rape young women and how to eroticize trust and consent; and
until young women are supported in the way they need to be redefining
their desires."
~Naomi Wolf, The Beauty Myth, p. 168..
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"In everything men make, they hollow out a central place for death,
let its rancid smell contaminate every dimension of whatever still
survives. Men especially love murder. In art they celebrate it, and in
life they commit it. They embrace murder as if life without it would be
devoid of passion, meaning, and action, as if murder were solace, still
their sobs as they mourn the empitness and alienation of their lives."
~Andrea Dworkin, Letters from a War Zone, p. 214..
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"One of the reasons that women are kept in a state of economic
degradation- because that’s what it is for most women- is because that
is the best way to keep women sexually available."
~Andrea Dworkin, Letters from a War Zone, p. 145..
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"Romance is rape embellished with meaningful looks."
~Andrea Dworkin in the Philadelphia Inquirer, May 21, 1995..
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"All men benefit from rape, because all men benefit from the fact
that women are not free in this society; that women cower; that women
are afraid; that women cannot assert the rights that we have, limited as
those rights are, because of the ubiquitous presence of rape."
~Andrea Dworkin, Letters from a War Zone, p. 142..
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"We have long known that rape has been a way of terrorizing us and
keeping us in subjection. Now we also know that we have participated,
although unwittingly, in the rape of our minds."
~Historian Gerda Lerner in Who Stole Feminism: How Women Have Betrayed Women, p. 55..
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"How will the family unit be destroyed? …[T]he demand alone will
throw the whole ideology of the family into question, so that women can
begin establishing a community of work with each other and we can fight
collectively. Women will feel freer to leave their husbands and become
economically independent, either through a job or welfare."
~Roxanne Dunbar in Female Liberation
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"We can’t destroy the inequities between men and women until we destroy marriage.
~Robin Morgan, from Sisterhood Is Powerful (ed), 1970, p. 537
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"Marriage as an institution developed from rape as a practice. Rape,
originally defined as abduction, became marriage by capture. Marriage
meant the taking was to extend in time, to be not only use of but
possession of, or ownership. Only when manhood is dead—and it will
perish when ravaged femininity no longer sustains it"
~Andrea Dworkin
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"The nuclear family must be destroyed, and people must find better
ways of living together…. Whatever its ultimate meaning, the break-up of
families now is an objectively revolutionary process…. No woman should
have to deny herself any opportunities because of her special
responsibilities to her children… Families will be finally destroyed
only when a revolutionary social and economic organization permits
people’s needs for love and security to be met in ways that do not
impose divisions of labor, or any external roles, at all."
~Linda Gordon, “Functions of the Family,” WOMEN: A Journal of Liberation, Fall, 1969
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"We are, as a sex, infinitely superior to men…"
~Elizabeth Stanton, One Woman, One Vote, Wheeler, p. 58
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"Who cares how men feel or what they do or whether they suffer? They
have had over 2000 years to dominate and made a complete hash of it. Now
it is our turn. My only comment to men is, if you don’t like it, bad
luck - and if you get in my way I’ll run you down."
~Signed: Liberated Women, Boronia. (Herald-Sun, Melbourne, Australia - 9 February 1996)
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"As long as some men use physical force to subjugate females, all men
need not. The knowledge that some men do suffices to threaten all
women. He can beat or kill the woman he claims to love; he can rape
women…he can sexually molest his daughters… THE VAST MAJORITY OF MEN IN
THE WORLD DO ONE OR MORE OF THE ABOVE."
~Marilyn French
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"My feelings about men are the result of my experience. I have little
sympathy for them. Like a Jew just released from Dachau, I watch the
handsome young Nazi soldier fall writhing to the ground with a bullet in
his stomach and I look briefly and walk on. I don’t even need to shrug.
I simply don’t care. What he was, as a person, I mean, what his shames
and yearnings were, simply don’t matter."
~Marilyn French; The Woman’s Room.
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"All patriarchists exalt the home and family as sacred, demanding it
remain inviolate from prying eyes. Men want privacy for their violations
of women… All women learn in childhood that women as a sex are men’s
prey."
~Marilyn French
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"We live, I am trying to say, in an epidemic of male violence against women."
~Katha Pollitt.
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"All sex, even consensual sex between a married couple, is an act of violence perpetrated against a woman."
~Catherine MacKinnon
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"The traditional flowers of courtship are the traditional flowers of
the grave, delivered to the victim before the kill. The cadaver is
dressed up and made up and laid down and ritually violated and
consecrated to an eternity of being used."
~Andrea Dworkin
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"The media treat male assaults on women like rape, beating, and
murder of wives and female lovers, or male incest with children, as
individual aberrations…obscuring the fact that all male violence toward
women is part of a concerted campaign."
~Marilyn French
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"Men renounce whatever they have in common with women so as to
experience no commonality with women; and what is left…is one piece of
flesh a few inches long, the penis. The penis is the man; the man is
human; the penis signifies humanity."
~Andrea Dworkin
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"You grow up with your father holding you down and covering your
mouth so another man can make a horrible searing pain between your
legs."
~Catherine MacKinnon (Prominent legal feminist scholar; University of Michigan, & Yale.)
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"Man-hating is everywhere, but everywhere it is twisted and
transformed, disguised, tranquilized, and qualified. It coexists, never
peacefully, with the love, desire, respect, and need women also feel for
men. Always man-hating is shadowed by its milder, more diplomatic and
doubtful twin, ambivalence."
~Judith Levine
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"Men’s sexuality is mean and violent, and men so powerful that they
can ‘reach WITHIN women to fuck/construct us from the inside out.’
Satan-like, men possess women, making their wicked fantasies and desires
women’s own. A woman who has sex with a man, therefore, does so against
her will, ‘even if she does not feel forced.’
~Judith Levine, (explicating comment profiling prevailing misandry.)
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"The male is a domestic animal which, if treated with firmness…can be trained to do most things."
~Jilly Cooper, SCUM (Society For Cutting Up Men.)
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"Women have their faults / men have only two: / everything they say / everything they do."
~Popular Feminist Graffiti
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"I feel what they feel: man-hating, that volatile admixture of pity,
contempt, disgust, envy, alienation, fear, and rage at men. It is hatred
not only for the anonymous man who makes sucking noises on the street,
not only for the rapist or the judge who acquits him, but for what the
Greeks called philo-aphilos, ‘hate in love,’ for the men women share
their lives with—husbands, lovers, friends, fathers, brothers, sons,
coworkers."
~Judith Levine, My Enemy, My love
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"There are no boundaries between affectionate sex and slavery in (the
male) world. Distinctions between pleasure and danger are academic; the
dirty-laundrylist of ‘sex acts’…includes rape, foot binding, fellatio,
intercourse, auto eroticism, incest, anal intercourse, use and
production of pornography, cunnilingus, sexual harassment, and murder."
~J. Levine; summarizing comment on the WAS document, (A southern Women’s Writing Collective: Women Against Sex.)
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"All men are good for is fucking, and running over with a truck".
~Statement made by A University of Maine Feminist Administrator,
quoted by Richard Dinsmore, who brought a successful civil suit against
the University in the amount of $600,000. Richard had protested the
quote; was dismissed thereafter on the grounds of harassment; and
responded by bringing suit against the University. 1995 settlement.
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"Men are rapists, batterers, plunderers, killers; these same men are
religious prophets, poets, heroes, figures of romance, adventure,
accomplishment, figures ennobled by tragedy and defeat. Men have claimed
the earth, called it "Her". Men ruin Her. Men have airplanes, guns,
bombs, poisonous gases, weapons so perverse and deadly that they defy
any authentically human imagination.
~Andrea Dworkin, Pornography: Men Possessing Women
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"On the Left, on the Right, in the Middle; Authors, statesmen,
thieves; so-called humanists and self-declared fascists; the adventurous
and the contemplative, in every realm of male expression and action,
violence is experienced and articulated as love and freedom."
~Andrea Dworkin, Pornography: Men Possessing Women.
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"I was, in reality, bred by my parents as my father’s concubine… What
we take for granted as the stability of family life may well depend on
the sexual slavery of our children. What’s more, this is a cynical
arrangement our institutions have colluded to conceal.".
~Journalist Sylvia Fraser
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"We are taught, encouraged, moulded by and lulled into accepting a
range of false notions about the family. As a source of some of our most
profound experiences, it continues to be such an integral part of our
emotional lives that it appears beyond criticism. Yet hiding from the
truth of family life leaves women and children vulnerable."
~Canadian Panel on Violence Against Women.
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"Catharine MacKinnon maintains that ‘the private is a sphere of
battery, marital rape and women’s exploited labor.’ In this way, privacy
and family are reduced to nothing more than aspects of the master plan,
which is male domination. Democratic freedoms and the need to keep the
state’s nose out of our personal affairs are rendered meaningless. The
real reason our society cherishes privacy is because men have invented
it as an excuse to conceal their criminality. If people still insist
that the traditional family is about love and mutual aid—ideals which,
admittedly, are sometimes betrayed—they’re ‘hiding from the truth.’ The
family isn’t a place where battery and marital rape sometimes happen but
where little else apparently does. Sick men don’t simply molest their
daughters, they operate in league with their wives to ‘breed’ them for
that purpose."
~Donna Laframboise; The Princess at the Window; (in a critical
explication of the Catharine MacKinnon, Gloria Steinhem et al tenets of
misandric belief.)
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"I claim that rape exists any time sexual intercourse occurs when it
has not been initiated by the woman, out of her own genuine affection
and desire."
~Robin Morgan
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"And let’s put one lie to rest for all time: the lie that men are
oppressed, too, by sexism—the lie that there can be such a thing as
‘men’s liberation groups.’ Oppression is something that one group of
people commits against another group, specifically because of a
‘threatening’ characteristic shared by the latter group—skin, color, sex
or age, etc. The oppressors are indeed FUCKED UP by being masters, but
those masters are not OPPRESSED. Any master has the alternative of
divesting himself of sexism or racism—the oppressed have no
alternative—for they have no power but to fight. In the long run,
Women’s Liberation will of course free men—but in the short run it’s
going to cost men a lot of privilege, which no one gives up willingly or
easily. Sexism is NOT the fault of women—kill your fathers, not your
mothers".
~Robin Morgan.
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"Heterosexual intercourse is the pure, formalized expression of contempt for women’s bodies."
~Andrea Dworkin
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"And if the professional rapist is to be separated from the average
dominant heterosexual (male), it may be mainly a quantitative
difference."
~Susan Griffin, Rape: The All-American Crime.
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"The institution of sexual intercourse is anti-feminist".
~Ti-Grace Atkinson, Amazon Odyssey (p. 86).
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"(Rape) is nothing more or less than a conscious process of intimidation by which all men keep all women in a state of fear".
~Susan Brownmiller, Against Our Will p.6
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"When a woman reaches orgasm with a man she is only collaborating with the patriarchal system, eroticizing her own oppression…"
~Sheila Jeffrys.
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MALE:…represents a variant of or deviation from the category of
female. The first males were mutants…the male sex represents a
degeneration and deformity of the female.
MAN:…an obsolete life form… an ordinary creature who needs to be watched…a contradictory baby-man…
~From ‘A feminist Dictionary; ed. Kramarae and Triechler, Pandora Press, 1985:
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"If the classroom situation is very heteropatriarchal—a large
beginning class of 50 to 60 students, say, with few feminist students—I
am likely to define my task as largely one of recruitment…of persuading
students that women are oppressed
~Professor Joyce Trebilcot of Washington University, as quoted in Who Stole Feminism: How Women Have Betrayed Women.
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"Life in this society being, at best, an utter bore and no aspect of
society being at all relevant to women, there remains to civic-minded,
responsible, thrill-seeking females only to overthrow the government,
eliminate the money system, institute complete automation, and destroy
the male sex."
~Valerie Solana, SCUM Manifesto (Society for Cutting Up Men.)
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"Men, as a group, tend to be abusive, either verbally, sexually or
emotionally. There are always the exceptions, but they are few and far
between (I am married to one of them). There are different levels of
violence and abuse and individual men buy into this system by varying
degrees. But the male power structure always remains intact."
Message on FEMISA, responding to a request for arguments that men are unnecessary for a child to grow into mature adulthood.
And:
Another
posting on FEMISA: “Considering the nature and pervasiveness of men’s
violence, I would say that without question, children are better off
being raised without the presence of men. Assaults on women and children
are mostly perpetrated by men whom they are supposed to love and trust:
fathers, brothers, uncles, grandfathers, step-fathers.”
~Both quotes taken from Daphne Patai’s excellent critical work,
HETEROPHOBIA
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Are you going to say “Not all feminists believe that!” Well it does
not matter. What matters is that the feminists who do believe that have
the power to change, block, and influence laws and guess what? They are
trying to hurt men.
Feminists fight to hurt men (not just radical feminists either) (this info is from
oratorasaurus)
Father’s rights group want shared parenting (equal custody) to be the
default if both parents want custody and neither parent is unfit. They
feel that men should not be punished for being men, and that women
should not be awarded custody to their kids simply for being women.
Currently women are awarded primary custody almost all the time, even if
the husband was the stay-at-home Dad and the woman was the breadwinner.
Feminists
fought against this. You can read NOW’s own statement
here. Also note their usage of anti-male lies, i.e. “
fathers are abusive, don’t give them custody.” That is from 1997, but still remains valid today.
Men want protection against false rape allegations. They feel that a
man’s life should not be ruined simply on the allegation of a woman who
may be a vindictive liar. Currently, a woman can accuse a man of rape
for no reason, and the man’s name is splashed in the paper and his life
is ruined. So, they fought for laws granting men anonymity until charged
with the crime of rape—not convicted, just charged.
Feminists
fought against this, causing it to fail. Also see
here, the London Feminist Network campaigning to defeat the proposal.
“The London Feminist Network is a campaigning organisation uniting London based feminist groups and individuals in activism.”
Men want an end to the justice system favouring women simply because
they are women, and giving men harsher sentences simply because they are
men.
Feminists
fought against this, arguing that no woman should be sent to jail,
even women who had murdered multiple people.
Men want equal treatment when victims of domestic violence, and to
not be arrested for the crime of “being male” under primary aggressor
policies.
Feminists
fought against this by
trying to suppress evidence showing that half of domestic violence is
done by women, by threatening the researchers with bomb threats, death
threats, etc. Modern, younger feminists
are doing it as well.
And sadly, they were successful in this effort of propaganda. For
decades, and continuing today, violent men are (rightfully) convicted
and punished by the state, while violent women are left to freely
terrorize and harm their partners.
The
feminist definition of domestic violence has skewed arrest and
prosecution philosophies, resulting primarily in having only male
batterers criminally pursued.
Men want female rapists to be arrested, charged, and convicted with
rape. In Western countries, women are rarely punished when raping men,
due to the biased legal system. In some countries, women
cannot be punished when raping men, since rape is defined as a male-perpetrated crime.
Feminists fought against this in
India, arguing that “there is a physicality [in] rape” and that it would make things “more complicated for judges.”
Feminists fought against this in
Israel, claiming that changing the law would result in men filing false rape claims.
Men don’t want to be thrown in jail because they lost their jobs and temporarily cannot pay child support.
Feminists fought against this,
trying to lower the amount to $5000 before
a man is guilty of a felony for not paying child support. If a man
loses a decent-paying job, he will now be a felon, go to jail, lose his
right to vote, AND be unable to find future jobs—if he cannot regain an
equal-paying job within a few months.
Men want equal economic support and help from the government. When
the recession hit, male-dominated fields like construction lost millions
of jobs, while female-fields like education and healthcare gained jobs.
So the government proposed an economic stimulus for those fields.
Feminists
successfully fought against this, arguing that it was discrimination to
support men, and caused the government to give money to women who
didn’t deserve it. Hundreds of professional
feminists complained against the “sexism” of helping men (who had lost
jobs) and not women (who had gained jobs).
A representative of the Michigan National Organization for Women testified in opposition to the Revocation of Paternity Act,
which stopped the old law which stated that if a woman was married and
cheated on her husband, the resulting child is considered to be legally
the husband’s and the biological father had no legal rights to fight for
custody or parenting time with his biological child.
As you can see, the claim that feminism fight for men’s rights is a
blatant lie. Don’t believe any feminists that say that. Feminists fight
for women’s rights. That is a good thing. Feminists also are happy to
harm men’s rights, as shown above. That is a bad thing. Feminism is
about female privilege, not equality.
Some may argue that these cases of feminists harming men is not
“representative” of feminism. I ask you: Are there any cases of
feminists helping men? No. Yet, there are many cases of feminists
harming men.
It is reasonable to conclude from these facts that feminism fights to harm men